What do you want your life partner to be like?

So I was asked this question recently and I thought I should probably post it with the answer :D

Quite an interesting question. So here it goes. 


First of all, let's put it straight, people cannot be described. Qualities are something they possess, qualities are not THEM. I know a friend of mine for the last 5 years, that doesn't mean I know the person in and out. He's still a mystery to me. At least a part of him is. I like people who have endless depth and so much more to them than the ability to understand my emotions or stuff like that. Of course, it indeed is necessary for that person to be understanding, but,  I like people who are interesting in a way that there's always something to know about them. I like mysteries. And I like simplicity. People who I can have light and easy relationships with. Nobody likes sour relationships, right? I want to be with a person who is vibrating at the same wavelength as mine. Disagreement drains a lot of energy. 


To be honest, I can't even describe myself properly, how will I describe the person I want to be with? I love mysteries and simplicity, that's all I can say.❤️

So essentially, there are innumerable combinations of physical features, ways of thinking and living, and basically being, and I am waiting for that one combination which I absolutely admire ❤️ which I'm yet to know..



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Me to 15-year-old me:

More than half of you wants to study because the world out there is waiting for your 90 percent marksheet. Well, you know what? Heck with the world and the marksheet. You've got absolutely nothing to prove. Study and score because YOU want to be happy about it when you see your score! Study because YOU want to get that feeling of accomplishment! Not because they want to see a 90. Tell them to give the damn boards to get their own 90


This was just an expression of how badly I want you to understand that what people think, doesn't matter. Because they expected me to get a 90 in my 10th and I got an 80 and my teachers never even celebrated that I got an 80! Then I saw my teacher congratulating a student who got a 70 something who was apparently "not so smart" in their eyes. They came and told me "I expected more from you, Archana" and I was like, welI, heck with you. I got an 80 even after studying just for just a month! Damn, I am supergirl to do that :P That too along with all sorts of extra curricular activities.

When I was in my 10th grade, I was involved with all sorts of activities in school. I had that "it's your last year in school, make the most if it" feeling. So I joined the dodge ball team, the dance crew and everything. Also, I used to enjoy biology and chemistry in class. Because of which I used to be interactive during the lectures. Which got my teachers to think that I study 8 hours a day and that I'm going to score a 90 in my boards. But the truth was, I was busy doing so so many other things. And trust me, I don't regret that. So anyway, the teachers were expecting a lot more from me. At that point of time the 15 year old me was under a lot of pressure. I was scared. I knew I won't be able to score well because I was into other things. I started studying a month before my boards were going to start, and all of the other students had finished revising the 3rd time! At that time my brother tried explaining to me that it was a better decision to make the most of my last year in school. I didn't understand any of this back then. But now I know I did the right thing. And it gave me strength to get over this marksheet. But I got over it.


I've learnt. Your school grades don't define you. They don't define your intelligence. All that matters is what YOU want to do in life and what you like doing. Try doing something you're passionate about, and I assure you, you'll be willing enough to work on it, be good at it, and not care about what others think. You'll do it for YOU. And that is what matters.